LONG LIVE FREEDOM!

 

William reached for his phone to turn off the alarm that was ringing loudly. He did his morning tour on social media and got out of bed. He was about to take a shower with his favorite playlist when he ran out of shampoo. “Oh my God!” he said. He couldn’t use any other shampoo. He had to use his wife’s shampoo. When he got out of the shower, his wife had just woken up and was panicking because she was late for work. “Ugh, I couldn’t even make coffee. You know I can’t wake up without coffee. Anyway, we’ll get it on the road,” she said. They left the house and ran to the bus stop for their three-way transportation. As William put his hand in his pocket, he realized he had forgotten his ear phones. Come on! How was he going to get through the whole way without listening to music?

Until the second transfer, Amelia did some online shopping. When she reached the second stop, William waved to his wife and started walking towards the metro station where he transferred. “I hope there is no line at the buffet. I am already late,” he thought. He would not go to the office without eating his pastry from the buffet at the metro station. However, it seemed like everyone who went to work at that hour that day agreed with him. The front of the buffet was packed. “Phew! We have to go hungry,” he said and started running to catch the metro.

As if missing the metro wasn't enough, William was also late for work. When he got to work, the planned meeting had already started. He sat at his desk in a depressed mood. I couldn't eat breakfast; I couldn't drink my coffee. Even the shampoo I used in the shower wasn't mine. " Nothing

is going the way I want it to today," he thought to himself. However, " There is no all or nothing in this life."

The meeting was over, but William was still thinking about that morning. How could he have started the day better? He couldn’t get up earlier, because he would go to bed after watching the TV series he didn’t want to miss. Then he ended up having barely any sleep. He couldn’t change the route he took to work because he could only have breakfast at that buffet on the way. He also had to stop by the market and buy shampoo before going home. Because of this, he would be stuck in traffic. William couldn’t get out of the problem. He had so many things he had to do. He had to use that shampoo, he had to go to work that way, and he had to sleep at that hour. What kind of freedom was this?

Everything in the world changes rapidly. We also get used to things quickly without realizing it. We become unable to break away from those habits and the pleasure they give us. We come across people around us every day who say, “I can’t wake up without having coffee,” “I can’t leave the house without having breakfast,” or “I can’t sleep without finishing my series.” However, we all have the right to enjoy life. The point is not to overdo things that give us pleasure.

Everything in life has a consistency. And there should be. But “all or nothing” disrupts this consistency. When a person speaks of the things they enjoy as “all” or “nothing,” they can no longer separate from them. When they cannot do the things, they see as freedom and think they feel relieved, this turns into pain.

William was thinking about how everything he saw as freedom had tied him up. He had to find a solution to this situation by any means necessary. Sometimes people can stray from the path, they can lose their balance. The important thing is for a person to realize that they have lost their balance and try to get back into it. William had to prove to himself that the things that gave him pleasure could be in his life as long as he wanted them to be.

What could he eliminate most easily from his life? While he was thinking about these, his friend Jason came to him.

-Well, let's go out to dinner. Then we'll stop by the cafe as usual. You can't help but drink iced coffee after a meeting.

William smiled. He had found what he was looking for. He was already feeling relieved.

-Never mind the coffee... Come on, let's take a walk after dinner.

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