BROKEN TAP HEAD

“When you lift the faucet head, water should flow out of the shower head. This is such a simple thing! This is your sole purpose for existence! When you pull it up, you will send the water to the head, that's it! I don't expect anything else from you. What is this trouble I've been suffering from for days? I lift the faucet head and the water flows into the shower head. When you let go, bam! It continues to flow from the bottom tap. What is this faucet head is trying to tell me?”

The reactions are not consistent. For a moment, you think that the water will constantly flow from the head. The next moment, you see, it is back to its old self. Just like me... The decisions I make in the evening have no effect in the morning. All my bright ideas that start with “From now on…” fade away within a few days. 

“From now on, I will wake up early in the morning. I will open the windows and fill my home with the blessing of the morning. First, I will read a few pages of a book, then I will go for a walk. I will walk for at least half an hour, then I will take a shower. I will also do my skincare and have breakfast. Of course, I will be at work right on time.” 

Even the dream is beautiful… Look at the perfection of my development plans! There is a health pattern, a beauty pattern, an energy pattern… However, these are plans that are abandoned a few days after they are started or are finished before they even start. Like a shower head… When I take my hand off, it returns to the old days. 

People set goals that are in line with their purpose and develop various strategies to achieve their goals. However, when the number of things to do increases, things get a little complicated. For example, they want to live a healthy life. They prepare healthy life lists.

Go on a diet

Do sports

Regulate your sleep

Give up bad habits

...

“There is still a lot of work. All of it needs to be done for a healthy life.” As the list gets longer, it becomes unbearable for the person and the things to do cannot go beyond being just a “list”. 

People think that their desires are decisions. However, a decision is accepting what they need to do in line with their desires. Then they can take action for their desires and move forward in that direction. That's why they can start losing weight when they go to the gym regularly, not when they sign up for the gym. 

Also, when a person starts a process, they want everything to be perfect. They shop for weeks before going to the gym or call a friend to help them. Most of the time, they either cannot continue this habit for a long time or they cannot start at all. Because what starts the movement is taking action without wasting time after making a decision. What ensures continuity is progressing little by little.

If we think carefully until we make a decision we increase the answers to the question of “Why do I want this?”, the process will last longer. When our wishes finally turn into a decision, we start the process with the means we have. Because it is not possible for a person to change his entire lifestyle all of a sudden. When we try this, a lot of time will pass before we can take action and things will become inextricable. For this reason, instead of giving up on sports because we cannot afford sports shoes, we can celebrate our third month in sports with a new pair of shoes. 

This is probably one of the best lessons one can learn from a broken shower head: The reason we fail to implement or sustain our plans is not because we don't want it enough or haven't prepared enough. It's because our desire hasn't yet turned into a decision.

A correct life comes from correct knowledge; a good life comes from good knowledge; a useful life comes from useful knowledge; and a good life comes from good knowledge!

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