JUST EAT IT!

 

Everyone had left the table, but Suzy hadn't finished her meal yet. Her mother had made a huge tray of homemade baklava, and there wasn't even a crumb left on the tray. So, it was time to take the bread and scrape off the syrup. Then a generous ayran, tea on top of that, and the warm cookies she had just put in the oven.

It had been three months since Suzy had turned to eating due to depression. Her mother and father had become increasingly worried about her. No matter what they did, they could not pull their daughter together. What would become of this girl?

If only they knew…

It all started three months ago when the university entrance exam was announced. Suzy had wanted to be a doctor since middle school and had worked very hard for this. She solved at least a hundred questions from each course every day and repeated the daily lessons.

The first year she took the exam, she had a surprisingly low score and couldn't get into any of the places she wanted. Her family had said, "Don't worry, sweetheart. You're a hard worker, you can do it. We'll support you." Her boyfriend Jack had consoled her by saying, "Don’t worry, you can prepare for one more year. You must have panicked; you'll handle it next time."

He had won a place at a very well-known University, Department of Civil Engineering. However, before he could be happy with his achievement, he started trying to support Suzy and pull her together. Of course, they were on good terms at that time.

The year Suzy decided to prepare for the exam again, her relationship with Jack slowly started to deteriorate. They had been seeing each other for 3 years. Suzy had grown tired of it and started to whine, “I know school isn’t over yet, but at least our families can meet we could have a small engagement?” Jack always avoided the subject with excuses like, “Not now, my dear, let my brother come back from military service” or “They just married off my sister. It’s too early now.”

When Suzy opened the topic, Jack exploded and the damage was done. He said, “I wish we had met at a more convenient time, but I don’t think this relationship will work.” and broke up with Suzy. Of course, Suzy’s mother was also very upset when she heard this. They liked Jack very much. He had been very supportive of her daughter during this process.

Unable to withstand all this pressure any longer, Suzy finally found happiness in eating. Her cooking adventure, which she had started at first to distract herself and get rid of the stress of work, gradually began to take over her life. Whenever she got bored, she would prepare a practical dessert, and then a practical appetizer. Then she started setting tables like a five-star restaurant chef. Then it got to the point where she was single-handedly devouring the entire table. Before she knew it, she had gained six kilos in a month.

Things were not going well. Suzy's eating frenzy had become uncontrollable. She had become a complete food addict. Her family was also very desperate. They wanted to do something for their daughter, but they didn't know what to do...

A very familiar story, isn't it?

Suzy's addiction is to eating.

If the real problem is clear, then the real solution is clear as well.

Suzy needed to abstain from eating as soon as possible.

Abstain from eating?

But how would this be possible?

It's true that an addiction is a difficult issue for people. But it is also true that, if a person is to have a good self, s/he must first be free from his/her addictions... Some actions will free a person from his/her addictions. But the secret of success is to avoid the opposite. Then one must become a master in avoiding! Design your life in your favor...

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